It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of ten year old Ethan McCoy. Ethan Alfred-Joe McCoy died on Thursday, October 22, 2020, after a grueling 61 day battle with pediatric brain cancer. Ethan was born on February 17, 2010 to parents Joey and Stefanie McCoy of Butte Valley, California.
Ethan loved gardening, reading, and the great outdoors. He was a young entrepreneur who loved to make birdhouses with his grandfather and grow succulents. He was a proud member of the Million Word Reading Club at his elementary school and participated in his local swim team, 4H club, and Awana group. Ethan also enjoyed camping in state parks, finding agates at Patrick’s Point, and fishing at his family’s cabin.
As a child on the Autism Spectrum, Ethan approached life in a very unique way. Despite social challenges, Ethan connected with people and developed meaningful relationships throughout his community and beyond. His endearing personality, infectious smile, and quirky nature are remembered by all who knew him.
Ethan is survived by his parents, Joey and Stefanie McCoy and siblings Holly (9), Judah (5), and Marty (2), as well as his maternal grandparents Esther and Steven Abshier, and paternal grandparents Joe and Susie McCoy. He was deeply loved by his aunts, uncles, cousins, and family friends.
Ethan’s family intends to hold a memorial service in February 2021. All are welcome to attend, and more information will be shared as details are arranged. Ethan’s family also plans to establish a memorial scholarship.
The McCoy family is deeply grateful for the outpouring of love, prayers, support, and encouragement from their church, school, friends, and community. A special thank you to UC Davis Children’s Hospital and its amazing medical staff. Ethan’s medical journey is documented through his parents’ video diary on YouTube.
Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14
